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| If there is one thing we are learning on this trip it is PATIENCE. We went in to our lawyers today and we still did not have the pass ports, court rulings, and death certificates we needed. We were told to come back tomorrow to get them and we are hoping that they will be there. The children are more than ready to be in America. Fyzel lies in bed at night and tells Michelle and Cindy what he misses in America. He lists things like Trevor, Brandi, Kyle, his bicycle, and his cat. Kahluna says that he is missing his bottom bunk and a huge piece of pig. (Ham...Michelle said it was waiting for him at home.) Rachel cries to sleep at night missing Bethany and Destiny. Tony is constantly wanting to look at pictures of his room and wants to see his Daddy. Our days are spent finding ways to entertain ourselves. Here are some highlights of our entertainment: 1. Kahluna teaching Tony and Cindy the Worm- Kahluna knows how to do the worm and he is trying to teach Tony and Cindy (Michelle's mom.) Tony looks like an upside down cockroach when he does the worm. Cindy at least moves forward when she attempts. Tony does not make any progress. 2. Come Up with Fabulous African Recipes- Everyday the question is asked, "What is for Dinner?" This is where we get creative and pull ALL of our resources together. There are only so many ingredients that can be found in Africa that are safe for us to eat. We have come up with many different ways to fix the same food. Here are the ingredients we have available to us: -Rice -Noodles -Blue Band- (Butter that does not have to be refrigerated) -Tomato Paste -Garlic -Eggs -Bananas -Salt -Fanta -Onions -Tomatoes -Pineapple -Peanut Butter -Cabbage We are holding a contest on Xanga for who can come up with the most creative recipe. The prize you win is that we will make it for you when we get home! Yum! 3. Michelle is STILL enjoying her Equadorian Soap Operas We are concerned that when we leave....Michelle is going to be left in suspense. Michelle is very into a show called Camilla. It is extra special because the actors speak Spanish...but it is dubbed over in English. Keep in mind that Michelle does not watch any soap operas in America. We are getting desperate. 4. Amy, Kahluna, and Fyzel go running in the morning Amy has noticed that her running partners often come down with many different injuries or illnesses that temporarily keep them from running. Amy will go in the room in the morning and ask them if they are ready to run. Fyzel will grab his leg or his stomach and say something is "paining him." Kahluna complains of shin pains and covers up his head. 5. We all make fun of Rachel when she is "hungry" Everyone needs to keep in mind that her clothes no longer fit her because she has gained some weight. We took the kids to a movie and Rachel ate a whole tub of popcorn and a pot pie. We had been home for 10 minutes and she went to every person in the room and had a pitiful look on her face and would say, "I am hungry." Her mom finally said, "You are not hungry, go play!" 6. Predicting when our documents will be in and discussing conspiracy theories against mzungus (white people) To be honest, this is really what we do with 95% of our time. We all like to make predictions on when we think we will be on the plane. Here are our updated dates: Michelle- July 17, 2007 Cindy- July 19, 2007 Fyzel- July 12, 2007 Rachel- July 15, 2007 Amy- 2008 ????? Linda- Has withdrawn from the game due to emotional damages! Feel free to make your own predictions! The correct person can meet us at the air port. Please continue to comment on our site! Hope to have good news soon. Please continue to keep us in your prayers! | | |
| Today we have a special treat for all of our readers....it is a song
composed by our group. It is titled: "Our Adventures in
Uganda" it is sung to the tune of Old McDonald.
Our Adventures in Uganda
Sung to the Tune of Old McDonald
Verse 1
There was a judge at the court
so late, so late, so late
She took her time with her work
so late, so late, so late
With a no, no here
A no, no there
Here a no
There a no
Everywhere a no, no
There was a judge at the court
So late, so late, so late
Verse 2
Tracking down all the guardians
Oh no, Oh no, No!
It was a task everytime
Oh no, Oh no, No!
With a guardian here
And a guardian there
Here a guardian
There a guardian
Everywhere a guardian, guardian
Tracking them down again
Oh no, Oh no, No!
Verse 3
Embassy man had a job
You & I, You & I owe
He didn't want to let us go
You & I, You & I owe
With paperwork here
And paperwork there
Here a document
There a document
Everywhere a "special" fee
Embassy man had a job
You & I, You & I owe
Verse 4
Lawyers have lots of helpers
Call me, Call me, back
One day equals three days here
Call me, Call me, back
With a shilling here
And a shilling there
Here 2,000 shillings
There 10,000 shillings
Everywhere more shillings, shillings
Lawyers have lots of helpers
Call me, call me, back
Repat verses 2,3, 4 indefinitely
We'll let you know when to stop singing!
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| Sorry it has been so long since we have updated you. We have been running around like crazy with little results. We have an important equation to share with all of you. When are are wondering when we are going to be home, see the equations below.
Passports for Children- 1 day = 7+ days
This has proven true with all four of our children. The lawyer told us that the passports would be ready on Monday...and it is Saturday and we still do not have them. They are supposed to now be ready on Monday...but we are not sure this will happen.
Rulings from judges in Uganda- 1 day = 14+ days
We have been waiting for 14 days now for the rulings. The judge tells our lawyer everyday that we are going to have them, but we have yet to see the results.
Orphan Investigation by the Ugandan Embassy- ?=?
We do not have an equation yet because we brought the children and the guardians in 21 days ago and the embassy man has yet to start our investigation!
The general equation for anything in Uganda- 1 day= 3 days We have found that on average if a Ugandan tells you that it will take one day, expect three.
Our research team in Uganda will continue to share with you updates on the results of these equations. We are planning on having them published when we get home.
As many of you might already know, we are two members short in Uganda now. On July 3, 2007 Bethany and Destiny went home to America. We would like to take a moment and share a tribute to them with you.
Our Tribute to Bethany and Destiny We miss you both o so much Please remember to keep in touch
We miss having six people share a room We miss your laughter when there is gloom
We miss Bethany telling children lies We miss Destiny being scared of anything that flies
We miss our late night talks Of course we miss our famous Ugandan walks
We miss having Joe call twice a day What happened to that by the way? 
We miss having discussions about the joys of the fast Ugandan pace We miss seeing your sometimes smiling faces
We are enjoying the clothes you left behind We experience joy with each outfit we find
The children cried last night They wanted to get on a flight
To go see Bethany and Destiny in the United States We said, "We will join them, just you wait."
It is always hard when a team is split in two We want you to know that our hearts are with you
We know that we are in your prayers We know you both really care
We are fighting for the children and we can't wait to meet you again You will be there for the finish, like you were when this adventure began
We miss you girls! We would not be here without you.
We are learning a lot about ourselves throughout this adoption experience. A song that comes to mind is by Rascal Flatts: Here is the chorus:
‘Cause when push comes to shove You taste what you’re made of You might bend ‘til you break ‘Cause it’s all you can take On your knees you look up Decide you’ve had enough You get mad, you get strong Wipe your hands, shake it off Then you stand, then you stand
We are going to break this song down for you and compare it to what we are experiencing in Uganda.
When push comes to shove- This is everyday. If we are not on top of what everyone is doing, then the process will not happen. Sometimes the push or shove might come from a simple sit-in at the lawyers office. Other times it is calling the lawyers office multiple times in an hour.
You taste what you’re made of- We have learned that we serve a mighty God and that all of our strength comes from Him. Even in times where we are weak we know HE is strong. It has been amazing to see how much strength six women can have.
You might bend ‘til you break- We have done this on numerous occasions. There have been many tears and frustrations shown. Sometimes the breaking might be taking out our frustration on Ugandan people, or to our family members back home. Our limits are certainly being tested on this trip.
‘ Cause it’s all you can take- Just when we think that everything is working out, something else happens. It comes to the point that we think we can't take any more, but we really can!
On your knees you look up- We are learning more than ever what it means to rely on God for all our needs. We know these children will not come home unless God performs miracles. Sometimes the miracles can be as small as a guardian showing up, death certificates, or a change of heart by a judge. All these small miracles add up to one big miracle which is four children having loving homes in America.
Decide you’ve had enough - When the plane took of July 3rd without us...we all decided we had enough. Then we went home and played with the children and we realized that in the end, it would all be worth it.
You get mad- This has happened a lot. A perfect example was when Henry became the victim of this anger. Henry is a man that works at our lawyers office. Every task he has done has been wrong and he alone has cost us over $300 USD. We have to constantly remind him to listen to us and that he is on our team. The day before we had insisted that we send someone with one of our guardians to get a paper signed. She is not capable of doing it by herself. Our dear friend Henry thought otherwise. Then, the next day we show up with the paper and he says it is fine. We send our guardian home. Then, at 5:30 pm Henry calls and says that the paper work is wrong. Keep in mind that we were sitting there all day doing nothing. We went back to the lawyers office and Amy was not very happy with Henry. Today, Amy went back to the office and Henry had a smile on his face. Must not have phased him too much.
You get strong- We have no doubt in our minds that we that going through these things will make us stronger. We are excited to see all that God has in store for us because we know that with each trial we face we are being made more into the women that God wants us to be.
Wipe your hands- Well....when you wipe your hands in Uganda....you are always left with LOTS of dirt and deet on the towel
Shake it off- This is what we have to do when we are over charged for the 15th time of the day. Or when we are asked to pay for things that we do not use. We have learned that "shaking it off" is the best approach. That is the way we avoid the verse "we get mad" happening too often.
Then you stand, then you stand- We are still standing, and at the end of this trip we will be standing with four children in America. Even though this is a tough experience, we are learning a lot about what it means to stand for Christ even when things don't go the way we want them to. We are excited to share the message that God has brought to us this trip. That message is that true faith comes when you believe in God even when you do not get the answer you wanted. True faith is when everything about you wants to give up, but something inside of you tells you to keep going.
We are inviting all of you to STAND with us through this time of trials and the unknown. Please STAND for us by praying.
Thanks for the comments! We will update you soon!
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| Out of all of our days in Africa....today has been the most interesting day so far. This is a recap of what has gone on so far.
Our interesting day started when our driver go pulled over by a traffic cop telling him that he was illegally talking on the phone. The guy actually climbed into the car with us and told us that we were going to the Central Police Station. He crawled in the back next to Linda. This is when things got serious.
Conversation Between Amy and Police Officer
Amy - We are NOT going to the Police station.
Police Officer- Excuse me, what did you say.
Amy - We are NOT going.
Police Officer- Give me the phone
Amy- (hiding the phone) Why do you need the phone
Police Officer- Give me the phone
Amy- (tosses the phone to him)
Police Officer- What this driver did is an offense and we have to go the police station
Amy- No....this is my phone and I gave it to him for two seconds so he could translate directions for me
Police Officer- This is your phone
Amy- Yes my phone
Police Officer- O really, what is the number
Amy- (Wishing Beth was there...she knows the number)- I do not know the number
Police Officer- What is the Driver's number
Our Driver- (Gives the police officer the wrong number)
Amy- Please Sir...it is not his fault
Police Officer- We will talk about it at the station
Amy- Call who we were talking to...they will tell you\
Police Officer- Calls the lady and she says it is Amy's phone
Amy- You see...it is my phone
Police Officer- Normally a matter like that is handled in court...but
Amy- (Is frustrated...now he wants us to pay him off)
Police Officer- Ok....I am watching you. (gets out of the car)
Everyone in the car celebrated....this does not happen very often in Uganda. If there is one thing we know....you do not go to the police station under any circumstances. If you are white, your money will be taken from you and you might have to stay in jail. Linda, Amy, and the driver were all scared...but in the end everything turned out ok.
From there the adventure continues. We have around 7 drums from Africa that we need to get packaged so that we can check them on as suitcases at the air port. We were told to go to this place on the streets and so our driver took us there. When we arrived we found the boxes we wanted and put them in the car. This is where it got interesting:
Conversation Between Amy and Guys Selling Boxes Amy- How much for the boxes?
Guys selling the boxes- 40,000 shillings Amy- (laughs) Are you kidding me?
Guys selling the boxes- No....40,000 Amy- (tells driver to pop the trunk) We do not want them....starts pulling out the boxes
Guys selling the boxes- Well....how much will you pay?
Amy- 3,000 shillings per box
Guys selling the boxes- No....this is too little
Our Driver- (argues with the men....tells them that they have stole the boxes anyways and that they are over charging us)
Amy- Let's Go
Guys selling boxes- (All get upset and take boxes out of car)
40,000 shilling is equal to over 30 American Dollars for 4 card board boxes. This is the most ridiculous price anyone has ever tried to give us in Uganda.
We have started a new game called:
The Battle of Bethany and Rachel
This is how the game works....it is a head to head competition between Bethany and Rachel where people award them points. Right now...the score is tied...1 all. Here is how the points have happened:
1 point Bethany- Rachel was mouthing Bethany in Ugandan...and Bethany's come back was, "Well your teeth are brown." Keep in mind this is due to lack of nutrition...poor Rachel. We all laughed and gave Bethany a point
1 point Rachel- Rachel does not like her hair brushed and so Bethany told her she would brush her hair. Rachel told her, "If you brush my hair I will beat you!" We decided that was a point for Rachel!
We will keep you updated on how this battle turns out!
Tony and Rachel's Bathing Experience
This story is to good to keep to ourselves. Amy was bathing Rachel and Tony decided he wanted a bath too. Once Rachel was out of the tub...Amy put Tony in the tub. Meanwhile, Rachel grabbed the sprayer and was ordering Tony to do something in Ugandan. All the sudden, Amy looks at Tony and he is on his stomach in the bath tub while Rachel is spraying him with freezing cold water. Tony tries to stand up and Rachel yells something in Ugandan so Tony goes back to his face-in-the-tub position. Amy then takes the sprayer from Rachel and tells Tony to stand up. Rachel was then asked to exit the bathroom. Linda is teaching Tony how to say no to Rachel. Rachel is not very happy about this.
We have been working hard to get everything done for the adoptions...the problem is that we can only wait. We have learned that we have absolutely no control. It is a hard situation to be in, but God is teaching us a lot of patience. We thought we had the legal guardianship with the intent to adopt papers yesterday....unfortunately when the judge was asked to sign them she refused and crossed out the part about adoption. The problem is that the Embassy will not give the children Visas without those words in them. Our lawyer went in today to try to persuade the judge otherwise. We know we will get the papers, we just do not know when this will be.
Please continue to pray hard. We know that these children will come home, we are just ready for it to actually happen.
Thanks again for all your comments!
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| Good News....we got the first court orders this morning. Linda and Tony now have a new daughter, Rachel. Today at two we go back to court and the judge will give us the paper work for Tony. Tomorrow we go to court with Michelle for the paper work for Kahluna and Fyzel.
We are not going to be home on July 4th, but we are thinking that our new date will be July 11th. This is one week after we thought we would be home. We have not changed our tickets yet, but this is the date we think we will be home.
Things are also going much better with Tony's Guardian. We got things worked out and so we appreciate your prayers.
Everyday we see that God is making us stronger. Through all the ups and downs, we are learning more everyday what it means to truly depend on God. God is showing us that it is in Him alone that we need to put our trust in. This has been our prayer:
Psalm 25:4-5 "Show me your ways, O LORD, teach me your paths; guide me in your truth and teach me, for you are God my Savior, and my hope is in you all day long.
Speaking of prayer, last year we were often interrupted by late night prayer sessions. This has not changed. We still enjoy being woke up multiple times a night by people praying as loud as they can. Here is what our sleep schedule looks like on an average day:
Sleep Schedule
10:00 p.m.- We begin to think about going to bed, but Tony and Rachel switch beds multiple times before they find which one they want to sleep in
11:00 p.m.- We enjoy late night talking
12:00 a.m.- We are asleep
1:30 a.m.- Everyone in the room is woken up to a lady who is in the room screaming a prayer. This goes on for about thirty minutes until she goes back to sleep
2:45 a.m.- Time to wake up again....it is prayer time
5:00 a.m.- The third prayer of the night
6:00 a.m.- We all have to wake up for the day while our prayer warrior is enjoying sleep
Our prayer warrior (Tony's Guardian) is now in the other room. This was after we enjoyed a week of no sleep. The best part of the whole situation is that one of the other guardians asked us if we had been praying in the middle of the night for the adoptions. We explained that we prayed during the day and slept at night. We are not sure that she understood. Maybe they figure that if they pray while everyone is sleeping, God will hear their prayers. We are firm believers that it is always appropriate to pray, but maybe a silent prayer is more appropriate between the hours of 12:00 a.m. and 6:00 a.m.
One of our new favorite pass times in Africa is watching pirate films. We do this every night. Here is the 7 reasons we enjoy watching these movies.
7 Reasons We Love Pirate Films 1. The mouths move up to 15 seconds slower than the words 2. Random heads pop up in the movie screen 3. The movie sometimes shakes 4. The picture quality is very poor, it is hard to identify exactly what is going on 5. You can watch a DVD with 8 Jenifer Lopez films on it 6. The electricity will turn off in the middle of the film and so we will have to wait until fuel is purchased for the generator 7. You can't hear at all even when the volume is on high
Thanks again for all your prayers. Please continue to comment!
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